I find that, for me, the most relatable character is Penelope. I think that for me she's more relateable by being the one person in her family who is either ignored or over looked, and her family doesn't seem to care in any way. I know personally what it's like to be treated like Penelope by my family because I've been ignored by my family far more times than I would like to admit to. I think that why season three Penelope is so refreshing from the first two is that she stopped pining for Colin, and started focusing on other men, like her mirror Lord Debling. I think that Lord Debling is Pen's reflective person who sees her and wants to know her more than the other men want to. I will say that Penelope is also the strongest female character in the show, from the start, because of who she is, or who the town knows as Lady Whistledown. I don't think that any other of the female characters would dare to do what she's done, and I think that she is perfect for the wallflower charater type so that other women can relate to her. I do feel bad for her with her mom being how she is.